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在重男轻女的家庭她的肚子显然是很不争气的连续两胎都是女儿丈夫赌

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 楼主| 发表于 2017-6-1 14:25:31 | 只看该作者 回帖奖励 |倒序浏览 |阅读模式 来自 河北省石家庄市
女人的母爱天性是不用年龄来定义的。小到三四岁女孩抱着布娃娃用心为她梳辫子打扮,大到恋爱中的女人常常会用母爱来包容时而任性的男朋友。母爱怎么去定义,在我一个还没结婚的少女的想法里,母爱应该就是想要用命去爱一个人吧。

近日看了毕淑敏的《血玲珑》,一个母亲十几年前被强奸后生了一个女儿,女儿得了怪病需要植入匹配的骨髓,医生建议重生一个孩子抽取骨髓救活她的女儿,她舔着脸皮跪在那男人面前,跪求他的蹂躏。她顾不得恨,满脑子都是女儿对生的向往的表情。

一个女人放下了所有的自尊只为保护她的孩子,这份母爱无法用任何言语来形容。

有一句话说,“女子本弱,为母则刚。”这句话是大多数女人生活的缩影,而我母亲就是其中一个。在嫁人之前,我母亲由于是家中幼女,家中父母兄弟姐妹疼爱有加,虽说是农民家的孩子,却也是纤纤玉手不碰粗活。而嫁与我父亲后,婆婆百般刁难,在怀着我姐姐的时候,被逼着扛着锄头下地干活,烈日当空,体力不支晕倒被抬回家,婆婆一气之下分了家,而且不提供任何经济补给。母亲第一次下厨把饭烧糊了,衣服也总是洗得脏脏的,顶着巨大经济压力的父亲像一座沉默了许久的火山,一下子爆发起来,暴燥地甩了母亲几巴掌,把她摔在墙角。

婆家的不待见,丈夫的不理解让她感觉到非常委屈,但她摸了摸肚子,孩子在里面的一举一动牵动着她的心,她咬咬牙坚持了下来。她跑去向村里的妇女学*,她悟性高,没几天就熟练上手了。直至分娩的前一天,她还坐在小凳上洗衣裳。

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